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Ruth Kadiri speaks on wedding anxiety, social pressure



 Actress and producer Ruth Kadiri has shared her thoughts on the pressure and anxiety surrounding weddings, especially the expectation of having a large bridal party.

In a video, Kadiri expressed concern for individuals with small social circles who might feel inadequate when seeing weddings with large entourages. 

She questioned why intimate weddings with fewer friends are rarely showcased, suggesting that sharing such moments could offer reassurance to those feeling anxious about their own guest lists.

Kadiri emphasized the importance of normalizing simple, close-knit celebrations, allowing couples to focus on their special day without societal pressure.

She said: “What I want to talk about are weddings. Am I the only one who sometimes see wedding pictures, how the bride sits with 15-20 of her friends and have a panic attack? What happens to those girls who are not usually friendly people. They just live their lives on their own. They don’t have friends. Sometimes they don’t have family, how do they cope? Are you also dealing with the same type of anxiety that I deal with on your behalf? 

“The fear of who is going to attend my wedding. I mean why can’t we also see pictures of people who get married truly without friends and the pictures are cute so they can give hope. Do you know some people have never had parties because they’re afraid people are not going to come, and they also genuinely not have friends

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